All the times my gf and I have had sex the past few weeks, as I thrust slowly trying not to cum too quickly, she’s let out these very quiet little grunts and groans of (to my ears at least) frustration. I don’t think she knows that I’ve noticed this … actually I don’t even think she’s conscious that she’s even doing it. It’s just like her natural response … and it really has me thinking that in the heat of the moment she’s craving more. Wanting to be fucked harder. Faster. Longer.
I just had an embarrassing but kinda incredible realization: the first ca. 25 times I had sex … my orgasm lasted longer than the actual sex itself.
multiperv asked: I like your blog and can definitely relate to most of it. I was wondering what kind of feedback you get? Would you say most of it was "me too, man" kind of stuff from men or more girls teasing you and/or expressing sympathy? And, if most of your feedback is from guy would you say it's been a couple? ten? 100? Thanks again for doing this, not that you/we usually can : ).
thanks so much! i don’t get a TON of feedback … but I’d say more from women then men. there have maybe been like 3 or 4 guys who have written a “me too” kinda thing. usually my comments are from women who look at my blog after i “like” something of theirs and that will usually be either something like “i checked out your blog … and found it strangely hot!” OR “i checked out your blog, it’s super funny!”. have gotten into some good conversations about where individual kinks come from.
how many times have gf’s of mine made jokes similar to this one? all i’ll admit to is … more than once.
Lesson learned this week …
Both of us DESPERATE to fuck after a week apart … probably not the best time to forgo condoms and the slight tempering of pleasure they provide.
Around fifteen seconds in she moans, “Oh God yes. Don’t stop!” … and I pull out and cum.
My first REALLY premature ejaculation with her in a while. Normally post-sex she pants, catching her breath. Not this time. Was over too soon for that. She’s quiet. Breathing slow.
We DID have a laugh about it though, recapping the “action” a few days later.
I was with a new girl who I really liked and who seemed to really like me and I REALLY didn’t want to disappoint her. It was our first time, and after I slid slowly into her I decided to just pause for a second to collect myself, really concentrate and prepare to give her the best sex of her life. But suddenly, I felt that twinge and I knew I was going to come and that there was nothing I could do about it. I just stayed there inside her, eyes closed, perfectly still trying to calm myself. 15 seconds. 30 seconds. I wasn’t moving, but still, I could feel it building. She looked up at me with a confused look on her face as I grunted and trembled - - dreading what I knew was going to happen and trying oh-so-hard to keep it in. I’m sure she was wondering what was going on, when I was going to start fucking. After about 45 seconds I realized there was really nothing I could do and that I was about to come. I could feel my face turn red, my dick just started to spasm and then with a little grunt I started to squirt. Absolutely no thrusting, no friction at ALL, COMPLETELY still insider her, and still I couldn’t help it. Once I was cumming, I remember my hips doing these little mini, uncontrollable humps as I helplessly spurted, and just feeling totally ridiculous. She said “oh my god” and laughed (there’s no way I can blame her) and I was stuck there with absolutely nothing to say.
I wonder what percentage of guys look at this pic and think, “Oh man … I would have SO much fun!” … and what percentage look at it and think, “Oh man … I would SO embarrass myself”.
tinattickles pool post reminded me of this blast from my past …
Me: Babe … your boob.
Her: (giggling) Oh … oops!
I had a girlfriend whose boob was ALWAYS popping out in public. Especially when we were playing pool in bars. She was the second girl I ever slept with and as it happens, I LITERALLY never lasted longer than 10 seconds with her when we had sex. Maybe she was subconsciously advertising for a new lover? ;)